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Friendsgiving offers a relaxed take on Thanksgiving, celebrating gratitude with friends. This guide provides actionable steps to plan and host a memorable Friendsgiving, from choosing a date and creating a menu to setting the ambiance and enjoying the festivities. Whether you’re a seasoned host or a first-timer, these tips will help you create a warm and inviting celebration.
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Friendsgiving, it’s quickly become one of my favorite traditions. I mean, who doesn’t love a chance to chill with your besties and stuff your face with good food, minus the whole family drama? It’s like Thanksgiving, but way more relaxed and personal. You get to actually catch up with people, laugh way too loud, and, of course, eat until you need a nap. I’m telling you, it’s the best.
So, if you’re thinking of hosting one, here’s a little guide to help you out. Trust me, it’s not as daunting as it might sound!
First things first: Picking a date and who to invite.
Traditionally, folks have Friendsgiving either the week before or after the actual Thanksgiving holiday, but honestly? It’s flexible. Look at your friends’ schedules, find a date where most people can make it, and go for that. When you’re figuring out the guest list, think cozy and inclusive. Invite your friends who, you know, actually make you laugh, the ones that bring the good vibes. It’s about building a positive and fun get-together.
Next up, the food: Collaborative feasting!
Potlucks are the absolute way to go here, let’s be real. It takes a huge chunk of stress off of you, the host, and everyone gets to show off their cooking skills. A group email or a shared online doc, it’s a lifesaver for coordinating who’s bringing what. You definitely don’t want three different casseroles, do you? Plus, it’s super fun when people bring something that’s meaningful to them—their grandma’s famous apple pie, that spicy dish they learned how to make, whatever it is. It spices up the whole meal, literally and figuratively.
Setting the Scene: Ambiance is everything!
Think warm and inviting, that’s the goal. Soft lighting from candles or string lights can make a huge difference, it’s all about that cozy glow. I like to add some fall decorations – pumpkins, gourds, some colorful leaves, it really helps set the mood, you know? And, of course, good music is a must! Make a playlist with some upbeat tunes, maybe some classic Thanksgiving songs, or get everyone to suggest their favorites, that way, everyone gets a song they like.
Fun and Games: Keeping the party going.
Don’t just rely on conversation the whole time, though that’s great too! It’s nice to have some activities on hand. I had one friend who always had board games, and it would always turn into a hilarious competition. Card games, charades, it’s whatever you are feeling. One year we even did a DIY photo booth with props which was so much fun. Or, if you have some crafty friends, do a craft session where everyone can create some decorations or a small gift!
A moment of Gratitude, because it matters.
It wouldn’t be Thanksgiving without a little gratitude talk, right? Have a moment where everyone can share something they’re thankful for, it’s actually pretty special. It can be written, shared out loud or both, whatever you prefer. It’s a lovely way to connect and appreciate all the good things in your life, trust me on this.
Pics or it didn’t happen!
Designate someone to be the photographer, or hey, maybe just get everyone to snap away. Those candid shots of laughter, deep conversations, and goofy faces? They are the best! Create a shared album where everyone can add their pics and videos. You will be looking back at those memories for years.
Finally, relax and enjoy!
Honestly, the most important part? Just let go and enjoy. Friendsgiving isn’t about perfection, it’s about friendship, fun and delicious food. Embrace the chaos, the silly moments, and focus on making lasting memories with your friends. And really, isn’t that what it’s all about? Ultimately it’s a way to connect with people, express gratitude and laugh until your stomach hurts, and what could be better than that?
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